I had no idea you could be gay and Indian
2003 September 13th |
The Globe and Mail
Funkasia Fridays created a following - and a community
Special to The Globe and Mail
It wasn’t Madison Square Garden. It wasn’t Marilyn Monroe. And she most certainly wasn’t singing to President John F. Kennedy. It was, instead, South Asian drag diva KIKI Karachi impersonating Ms. Monroe, pouting through the breathy Happy Birthday, Mr. President number.
The occasion was DJ Zahra’s 30th birthday bash last week. But it was also a brilliant farewell to Funkasia Friday.
Hosted by DJ Zahra for five years, Funkasia was a dance party that brought as many as 800 Torontonians to the Yonge and Church neighbourhood’s Fly nightclub on the first Friday of each month.
It was a campy, queer and groovy tribute to Bollywood by DJ Zahra, a.k.a. Zahra Dhanani, an immigration and refugee lawyer by day, music-spinner by night. It was a place to dance to everything from Indian film music and bhangra beats to Caribbean rhythms and R & B. For Seema Mehra, her sister-in-law, Maria Vamvalis, and Roshni Sharma-Fleming, Funkasia was a place to go to listen to South Asian music and have fun.
Funkasia regulars for more than a year, the trio brought along Meenakshi Sharma to the last Funkasia Friday, which is ending because DJ Zahra felt it was time to move on. Ms. Sharma, who is from Amritsar, India, was swept off her feet by the end of the night. “This is the most amazing thing I’ve ever seen,” she said.
It’s a completely different experience than what you get at most clubs, Ms. Vamvalis said. “I’ve always had a strong fascination with South Asia,” the 29-year-old said. “I used to see it on TV, and everything about it just moved me.”
“It’s also about going back to your roots,” Ms. Sharma-Fleming said. “Remembering where you come from. I married outside of South Asian culture. It’s really important for me to maintain what my parents taught me. Stuff like this makes me really proud of my culture, especially when it’s going mainstream.”
The gay-friendly atmosphere of Funkasia had Deep Khosla hooked for close to four years.
“It’s not just a gay space, but a gay-friendly space,” said Mr. Khosla, 47. “It’s not just about South Asians, which helped me step outside my ghetto. And to have that combined with my Indian roots, it was just wonderful.
“In fact, I was talking to two non-South Asians. And they regard this as definitive of Toronto.”
DJ Zahra came to Canada with her family in 1976 and moved to Toronto in 1987. In university, she discovered she was gay and initially had a hard time coming out to her family. But eventually, love from her family and friends kept her going, and she wanted Funkasia to serve the same function for others.
Looking around, DJ Zahra said it’s people such as sari queen diva Tanya who make Funkasia what it is. “Tanya is a transgender, living loud and proud among the South Asian community,” she said. “This is what Funkasia’s about.”
“I had no idea you could be gay and Indian,” said Kamal, 26, who declined to give his last name. “Funkasia helped my true self come out. All the friends I have today, who really matter, are people I met at my first Funkasia.”
Although saddened by the loss of Funkasia Fridays, everyone was looking forward to the now annual Funkasia celebrations at Pride parade and the Masala! Mehndi! Masti! festival at Harbourfront. “I’m looking forward to whatever she’s planned next,” Mr. Khosla said.
“I want to have a Funkasia party at the SkyDome,” DJ Zahra said. “Just invite everyone to come join the fun and feel the love, Zahra-style.”
